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Do not marry a 32 year old woman if you want a large family. Do not marry a 1/4 black girl if you are at all uncomfortable with your children being 1/8 black (if the concern has entered your mind at all, you're probably uncomfortable with it). This is an important choice. Probably the most important choice you will ever make. Trust your gut. If it doesn't feel right, it means there are probably better options out there for you. When the right woman enters your life, you will not feel this degree of indecision. You will know.

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(03-01-2020 01:46 PM)gework Wrote:  Currently I have two options.

1) 24 yo 8, slim, nice body, baby girl/happy gene, wants to marry and have kids now, wants trad life but a little unsure of security, high attention span, regular church attendance and that her husband goes with her is a deal breaker

Issue: She is a quarter African. This is primarily an issue for me due to globalist programs. If they left us alone this would be a minor issue

2) A girl my friend has suggested he could set me up with: 32 yo 8, slim, nice body, ladylike, wants to settle down, Christian (unknown dedication), full Anglo, presumed notch count = 1

Issue: age

Keep looking? Or accept?

This is eerily similar to the situation I am in, although in my case, we are talking 100% African/Indian, my genetic opposite I suppose. My kids in this scenario would be 50/50.

I posted what turned out to be a very helpful thread here before it was nuked.

The race thing comes down to personal choice. We can't decide for you. There is no right nor wrong here. I fully understand your situation and thoughts with the globalists plans, Kalergi and so on. I understand all of their agendas and have a strong desire to do the opposite of what they want.

The most helpful nugget of wisdom from that thread was that what each of us does on an individual level is not going to change anything that's going on on when we take a step back and look at things at the macro level. You having mixed kids VS say importing millions of Africans/Chinese/Hispanics/whatever into Europe/US/Australia. In fact, if she would be a great mother, this would be a positive. There is a strong argument to do what is best for your own personal happiness over that of your race. On the flip side, it's every little individual decision like this that makes up the whole... it's not an easy one that is for sure.

Having said all that - I don't think 1/4 'other race' would be an issue for me, if many other boxes are ticked. Your 1/8th kids will have a very dominant race and look. In fact, a good chance of a very attractive look, nice tanned skin. I think the potential for issues with your kids comes from where there is no dominant race/culture/look. FWIW from my research, even 1/4 people can be hard to tell they are mixed in most cases.

Similar to those above, this was only a consideration for my future sons. For some reason the thought of mixed daughters is absolutely zero issue. If anything, potentially even more attractive. Funny how that works.

(03-03-2020 05:34 PM)Serie A Wrote:  Bro, if your women are just mere options, then keep looking because you're not where you want to be yet.

The right woman will move you to the point where there is no other option but to love her and marry her, and any other course of action will seem categorically insane.

And don't worry too much about your choice of lifestyle. It's not the dealbreaker that you think it is – but you do need to meet the right woman.

There is a lot of wisdom here. We can have our lists, check boxes, pros and cons and so forth. But really, we're not shopping for a computer. We're looking for a life partner to grow together, domestic bliss (loving home, loving partner, financial health in case of break up) and most importantly healthy children (good motherly skills, patience, attractive genes).

Tune into your intuition and let it guide you.
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I sometimes get the feeling that there are certain personality types that do well in western countries. There's always someone for anyone who is one of those personality types. No matter what you've got going for you, if you're not in one of them, you'll never find someone. One way or another, it will never work out.

That's not how we do things in Russia, comrade.

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At this point in western civilization it seems we only got 2 choices...either go full Chad or pack up and leave for greener pastures. The prognosis is unfortunately terminal, previous patients (hello Greece, Rome, Persia, Britain and so many more) never found a cure.
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(03-09-2020 09:55 PM)belchmech Wrote:  At this point in western civilization it seems we only got 2 choices...either go full Chad or pack up and leave for greener pastures. The prognosis is unfortunately terminal, previous patients (hello Greece, Rome, Persia, Britain and so many more) never found a cure.

"go full Chad or pack up and leave for greener pastures..." truer words. The west only "rewards" chads, but the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
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(03-02-2020 10:04 AM)dAversa Wrote:  HCE is in an interracial marriage AFAIK, so he's definitely not objective.

I know that this may be hard for you to accept, but my interracial marriage is not due to having an interracial fetish. I simply happened to find a great girl from a different race before I found a great girl from my own. Why would that make me "not objective"?

It's not SJW-ism or globalism, it's just a coincidence.

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(03-14-2020 01:37 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  
(03-02-2020 10:04 AM)dAversa Wrote:  HCE is in an interracial marriage AFAIK, so he's definitely not objective.

I know that this may be hard for you to accept, but my interracial marriage is not due to having an interracial fetish. I simply happened to find a great girl from a different race before I found a great girl from my own. Why would that make me "not objective"?

It's not SJW-ism or globalism, it's just a coincidence.

you were never focused on finding a woman from your own race to begin with. btw if your future daughter just happens to fall for an ilegal mexican or a black dude or an arab muslim would you be ok with that?
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So the question here is whether to marry a girl who is 25% another race. According to you, someone who is not focused on finding a woman from their own race is not objective... but someone who is focused on finding a woman from their own race is objective.

How does that possibly make sense?

It's like someone asking whether to pick business or engineering, and the answer "pick engineering" being dismissed as not objective... because you picked engineering.

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(03-01-2020 01:46 PM)gework Wrote:  This is particularly for anyone who is married. I assume most will have weighed something up like this.

There are a lot of things I would like from a woman and I have found some with a good number, but there is always at least one grating issue.

For a few years I've had in my mind to live rurally and have a large family; and financially I could do that tomorrow if a woman materialised. But I almost always found that when I spoke of such desires I would get pushback from modernised women. So instead I've been kind of clumsily fumbling round kind of half trying to get there. Until this December when I decided I was only going to go for what I wanted. I know this would narrow my options dramatically, but it's also the only way to achieve them.

As you will know there are painfully few women outside certain countries where you'd find pre-wall women who are interested in a life of raising children and being taken care of.

On the other hand there isn't much problem finding some 18 yo SB or casual teenage Russian GF who will take a flashy life in central Moscow on a day to day basis.

The market for serious traditional marriage is tiny and is shadowed by the SB market, probably the sex work market, the hookup market and casual relationships.

Currently I have two options.

1) 24 yo 8, slim, nice body, baby girl/happy gene, wants to marry and have kids now, wants trad life but a little unsure of security, high attention span, regular church attendance and that her husband goes with her is a deal breaker

Issue: She is a quarter African. This is primarily an issue for me due to globalist programs. If they left us alone this would be a minor issue

2) A girl my friend has suggested he could set me up with: 32 yo 8, slim, nice body, ladylike, wants to settle down, Christian (unknown dedication), full Anglo, presumed notch count = 1

Issue: age

Keep looking? Or accept?

I don't know how a 32yr old can have a presumed notch count of 1 unless she had been dating a guy for over a decade. If so, that has baggage in and of itself.
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(03-01-2020 04:41 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  What exactly is the problem with her being a quarter African? I imagine she barely looks it and hardly identifies with it. I see no issue.
(03-02-2020 02:28 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  
Quote:globalist programs.

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Can you elaborate on the above? What specifically are your concerns?

PixelFree outlined it well. This is something relevant to a lot of people. An OKCupid survey found 60% of white US women prefer their own race; another study shows about 50% of Asian-American women are not interested in Asian men. I've even been confided in by two lefties that they are only interested in white women. It's something a lot of people have, for one reason or another.

For me it's that Western countries are turning into foreign countries and are measurably degrading. If we had a small number of respectful and independent immigrants it's quite likely I would think little of this. But since most Western nations will be majority foreign this century I feel compelled to not mix my genes with them and see the eventual relegation of whites to the status of The Jew.

If you have any such leanings, and you are attached to say, a black woman, then do you hide them from her for all of your life? What about when you meet the black parents, or siblings? You sit there eating dinner, knowing that these are not you preferred in-laws. It seems very un-natural.

There is also a huge social component. As mentioned, many people have ethnic parameter to their attraction. If you have 20 friends, then by law of averages about half of those will not want to race mix; and they won't be able to help but treat you differently. This is probably a big factor behind the elevated levels of divorce in inter-racial marriages. It's like these guys with Thai brides. You see them and your mind automatically pigeon-holes them. These liberals who won't race mix themselves, but dare not say it or think about why, too much, think whites are superior. That's the only reading. You're getting treated differently.

As for this girl who is a quarter African. Phenotype matters far less for women. I am very obviously of the Northern European phenotype. This is considered the most attractive phenotype by women in general. And I am a good specimen of this phenotype. I don't really want to water it down with the genes for fat noses, round faces, brown eyes and curly hair.

(03-01-2020 07:51 PM)Dilated Wrote:  Which one is less of a threat financially?

I don't go down the prenup-obsession route. Worrying about if my potential wife would pull out divorce for cash is not something I'm going to do. I'm just going to put my faith in that I have the wisdom to pick a woman from the half of women who don't end up divorced.

(03-02-2020 10:36 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  The 32 one notch anglo? We're forced to enter into real crystal ball territory here but I don't like what I'm hearing. How does an 8 get to 32 with one notch?

I don't have much details here. The same guy offered to hook me up with her sister, who I think was 29 at the time. He told me that she has never had a boyfriend. The one who is 32 is has only had one boyfriend, for four years, and she cut it off because it was going nowhere. I met this girl briefly once when she had the BF. She was obviously more conservative and ladylike. The family is Christian. I can't say what they are like. Hopefully they just think modern life is rubbish and don't fit into Clown World.

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