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Is this girl nuts or just seeking attention? LONG POST ITT
Nevermind,
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02-18-2020 11:14 AM
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RE: Is this girl nuts or just seeking attention? LONG POST ITT
(02-18-2020 11:14 AM)KingKrule Wrote:  I kinda want to make her realize that she shouldn't believe what these guys are saying also because I care for her and not because I want to win her back or anything. Most likely a girl like this needs to meet a guy and then maybe figure out that its not all sunshine and rainbows like he was telling online for months. It's like she believes these guys don't want sex etc.. lol

This girl is very attractive and she makes good money herself online, she can "get any man she wants", and I am far from a very confident, very good looking guy, etc. So I don't understand why she wants to spend so much time on these guys online who might be desperate for a girl. I have been with a lot of women in my life so I'm not a noobie to make that clear.


Is this girl nuts, craving attention? The two other guys, what do you think about their behavior? This whole situation..

How is it actually any of your business what this girl is doing? Do you think it's your responsibility to manage her social life? Why do you think that "understanding why she wants to spend so much time" is a worthwhile pursuit for you?

I'd dismount that white horse of yours and get your feet on some solid ground.

Manage and worry about your own life, and the real world relationships that serve to enhance your life.

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02-18-2020 11:37 AM
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RE: Is this girl nuts or just seeking attention? LONG POST ITT
Ofcourse its not any of mine business and Im aware of that, its not like its my mission to understand why she spends time on guys like that, it was just a thought.

We met in real life, if you didnt get that. Trying to tell a girl she shouldnt care about a guy who wants to controll her and some other guy who wants to marry her without meeting meeting under four eyes is white horse now? Lol
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02-18-2020 11:51 AM
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Knew I should have written "In before dont give a shit and dont care about anyone beside yourself comments"
02-18-2020 12:00 PM
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RE: Is this girl nuts or just seeking attention? LONG POST ITT
I can see what just went on here. Let's take it down a notch.

A key part of the red pill is realizing that male nature has an overly bad rep and female nature an overly good rep.

Men are pegged as unfeeling monsters and women as empathic nurturers. And that may be true as far as men on the battlefield and women raising children, but when it comes to the dating game, things tend to be more inverted. Men are the ones who develop feelings for women (and usually only one at a time, an infatuation) and women are sitting at the buffet table weighing the options in a cold and calculated way.

In today's dating market, what that leads to are (young, naive) men making a lot of wasted emotional investments. Once women deem a man useless to them they just flip off their emotional engagement like a light switch. Men struggle to do that, but the only way to remain whole is to learn that skill. Caring about someone who doesn't care about you might make you feel superior in some way but is ultimately a waste.
02-18-2020 12:36 PM
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RE: Is this girl nuts or just seeking attention? LONG POST ITT
Good post, appreciate it and It gave me a new perspective.

Is it a huge red flag? A girl giving away her passwords to a guy she met online and believe it's him caring about her. Believing that some other guy she barely met is her soulmate and go into a relationship? It just sounds sick to me
02-18-2020 12:58 PM
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Rule of thumb is if you're wondering whether something is a red flag, it means it's a red flag.
02-18-2020 01:39 PM
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True that
02-18-2020 01:43 PM
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Big +1. And also the downside of tying yourself to the wrong woman is worse than the downside of letting a good woman slip away because of some weird hiccup. A good woman will be fine, she'll find someone else and so will you. Chaining yourself to the wrong woman has long-term repercussions, so it's good to err to the side of "no" (within reason).
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(02-18-2020 12:58 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  ...
Is it a huge red flag? A girl giving away her passwords to a guy she met online and believe it's him caring about her. Believing that some other guy she barely met is her soulmate and go into a relationship? It just sounds sick to me

If she's with another guy (a random guy she met online, mind you), then why do you care if it is a "red flag" or not?
02-18-2020 01:55 PM
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(02-18-2020 01:55 PM)Rob Banks Wrote:  
(02-18-2020 12:58 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  ...
Is it a huge red flag? A girl giving away her passwords to a guy she met online and believe it's him caring about her. Believing that some other guy she barely met is her soulmate and go into a relationship? It just sounds sick to me

If she's with another guy (a random guy she met online, mind you), then why do you care if it is a "red flag" or not?
Which one of them are you referring to? I didn't say that the second guy is a "Random guy she met online". If you meant the first guy, they don't have contact anymore

Because I could still have a chance with her if I want to(Not saying I will).

I like how you true to suggest he is not a random she met online, hehe.
02-18-2020 02:32 PM
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