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Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
So why can't OP trust a girl from a dating app/bar?
03-06-2020 02:09 PM
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
I never said he can't. I was just pointing out your contradiction from your previous post.

But, to answer your question, using a dating app or going to a bar to meet strangers to have sex with (or to "date," whatever, same difference) is degenerate behavior.

It's kind of like if a girl cheats on her husband with you and then divorces him and wants to marry you. Are you going to be able to trust her? No. The entire relationship started based on her degenerate behavior (cheating on her husband). That is a huge red flag.

In the case of a girl who goes to bars/clubs or uses dating apps, it is not as degenerate as cheating on her husband, but it is still a red flag. The entire relationship started because she decided to go looking for strangers to have sex with, and you're the lucky stranger.

There are lots of behaviors that if a girl engages in them, it is safe to say they'er not marriage material (for example hard drug use, porn consumption, excessive drinking, excessive piercings and tattoos, etc.). Using dating apps or (going to bars to meet men) is just another example of these red flag behaviors.
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03-06-2020 02:35 PM
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
I don't think you understood my last post.

What? Are you saying everyone on a dating app or in a bar is looking for strangers to have sex with?

Why do you bring up girls who cheat? Having sex with a stranger from a bar/dating app is not "kind of like" the same as cheating on your husband. Now you start comparing girls in a bar/app to girls who cheat on their husband? Why start writing "Going to bars to meet men", couldn't you write that from the beginning instead of indicating that every girl in a bar is looking for random sex?

I thought we already agreed that not every girl on a dating app has to have a high notch count and that you can be able to trust her.

You will always find red flags want to, it's like you just bring up worst-case scenario and thinks its some kind of proof.
(This post was last modified: 03-06-2020 03:22 PM by KingKrule.)
03-06-2020 03:18 PM
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
(03-06-2020 03:18 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  What? Are you saying everyone on a dating app or in a bar is looking for strangers to have sex with?

Yes. Either to have sex with or to "date" (i.e. eventually fornicate with).

I guess it's possible for a girl to go to a bar just to hang out with friends and not meet guys, but in that case what would you be getting from talking to her?

Not a lot of girls in bars or on dating apps insisting the guys wait till marriage.

(03-06-2020 03:18 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  Having sex with a stranger from a bar/dating app is not "kind of like" the same as cheating on your husband.

First you say that not all girls in bars/dating apps are looking to have sex with strangers. Now you say that having sex with strangers is OK (or at least "not so bad")? Which one is it?

If you want to wife up a girl who makes a habit of having sex with strangers (even if she is single at the time), be my guest. I wish you luck. Let us know how it works out for you.

(03-06-2020 03:18 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  Why start writing "Going to bars to meet men", couldn't you write that from the beginning instead of indicating that every girl in a bar is looking for random sex?

It's not necessarily "random sex." Many girls go to bars to meet guys to "date" (which means they will eventually have unmarried sex with men who they will ultimately break up with). This is still degenerate, even if it is not "random sex."

(03-06-2020 03:18 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  You will always find red flags want to, it's like you just bring up worst-case scenario and thinks its some kind of proof.

You're saying men should ignore what they believe to be red flags?

Too many guys fall into the trap of ignoring red flags just because the girl is so "sexy" and they don't want to give that up.

If you think it might be a red flag, it probably is. Trust your instincts and don't make excuses for degenerate behavior.
(This post was last modified: 03-06-2020 04:10 PM by Rob Banks.)
03-06-2020 04:07 PM
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
Yes, you might end up talking with a girl at a bar who didn't go there with the intention of sleeping with a stranger, its amazing isn't it.

Hahah, I never even gave my opinion on if it's OK to have sex with strangers or not, I wrote its not the same as cheating on your husband. You are funny tho. The question you ask for is two different things btw, I can't "choose". It's not a contradiction. If every girl who goes to an app/bar isn't looking to have sex with a stranger, it can still be OK to have sex with a stranger. Or the opposite, as you like.

I never said I wanted to wife up a girl who makes a habit of sleeping with strangers? Where do you get this from

Sex with a random guy they liked at a bar then, lol.

No, I don't say guys should ignore red flags, I say you will always find it if you look for it. If you find it, it doesn't need to mean the worst possible scenario.
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
(03-06-2020 04:43 PM)KingKrule Wrote:  Yes, you might end up talking with a girl at a bar who didn't go there with the intention of sleeping with a stranger, its amazing isn't it.
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If you end up sleeping with her (whether it be the same night or after 3 dates), then regardless of whether she had the "intention" of sleeping with a stranger, she was open to the possibility.

If she is not even open to the possibility of meeting a stranger for a sexual relationship, then what is the point of talking to her? Just to be friends?

The only exception to this would be if a girl goes to the bar with the intention of finding a husband (and insisting that any man she meets wait until marriage for sex), but, realisticly, how many women like this have you met at bars (or on dating apps)?

EDIT: I just realized you were responding line by line to the individual points I made in my last post.

In the future, use the quote feature. Otherwise, your post is really hard to understand. Honestly, after reading your last post, I assumed your English was really bad (which was weird because there's nothing wrong with your English in previous posts).
(This post was last modified: 03-06-2020 07:20 PM by Rob Banks.)
03-06-2020 07:14 PM
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RE: Which are the best dating apps for finding a wife in Europe or Asia?
Lol, you are overthinking way too much.

You are not defending your statements anymore, you are just going down a rabbit hole, saying if she does Y, then she is a X, and if she is an X then she has and so on....
(This post was last modified: 03-07-2020 05:07 AM by KingKrule.)
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