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How bad is is to marry an older woman?
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
(02-25-2020 10:49 PM)Augustus_Principe Wrote:  
(02-25-2020 06:23 PM)PixelFree Wrote:  BTW, awesome thread. It's really helped me in a current situation I'm in. There is a 35-36 year old 9 who is showing me lots of interest and stacks up in many other ways (no kids, traditional upbringing/values, healthy life, slim figure, pleasant, etc etc) but I was on the fence about the age. Seems like my instinct was correct. I just kept thinking we'd need to fast track our courting and get straight too it - it really would add a lot of pressure to the relationship.

Yes, trust your instinct on this one. Almost 3 years ago, i was in the same boat you were and instead of trusting my instinct and red pill advice of not dating older women that I had read for years, I decided to make this older gal my GF. As I've said before, she was the most amazing women i've met, even to this day and coincidentally, she helped along my journey to find God again. Sadly, she could not conceive after over 2 1/2 years of us fornicating, which is when I cut things off.

OK... update... she just turned 33.

Still a no go? Also, in hindsight, I'll give her a 9.5. She would have been a 10 all throughout her 20's. Lovely woman, just was/is too career focused.

It's sad how each year around this time and really make a big difference...

Even best case would need to be quick courting period, test for red flags/compatibility within 6 months, then fertility tests ASAP, and be prepared break up based on those results or to accept 2 kids max (with 3 would be a blessing).

I suppose I'm really trying to find where this cut off line is.
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03-02-2020 11:35 PM
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
(03-02-2020 11:35 PM)PixelFree Wrote:  
(02-25-2020 10:49 PM)Augustus_Principe Wrote:  
(02-25-2020 06:23 PM)PixelFree Wrote:  BTW, awesome thread. It's really helped me in a current situation I'm in. There is a 35-36 year old 9 who is showing me lots of interest and stacks up in many other ways (no kids, traditional upbringing/values, healthy life, slim figure, pleasant, etc etc) but I was on the fence about the age. Seems like my instinct was correct. I just kept thinking we'd need to fast track our courting and get straight too it - it really would add a lot of pressure to the relationship.

Yes, trust your instinct on this one. Almost 3 years ago, i was in the same boat you were and instead of trusting my instinct and red pill advice of not dating older women that I had read for years, I decided to make this older gal my GF. As I've said before, she was the most amazing women i've met, even to this day and coincidentally, she helped along my journey to find God again. Sadly, she could not conceive after over 2 1/2 years of us fornicating, which is when I cut things off.

OK... update... she just turned 33.

Still a no go? Also, in hindsight, I'll give her a 9.5. She would have been a 10 all throughout her 20's. Lovely woman, just was/is too career focused.

It's sad how each year around this time and really make a big difference...

Even best case would need to be quick courting period, test for red flags/compatibility within 6 months, then fertility tests ASAP, and be prepared break up based on those results or to accept 2 kids max (with 3 would be a blessing).

I suppose I'm really trying to find where this cut off line is.

At the end of the day, you decide the risk you are willing to take in order to be in a relationship and wed a woman in her 30s. You will in time, find out her personality, femininity, and fertility. At least this one just turned 33, which isnt the worst. She's still in her early 30s and presumably, has some fertility left. Is she willing to have kids ASAP? Best case scenario you start having kids when shes 34, which would at least give you two. If you are OK with that, and she truly is a remarkable woman who would be a lovely wife(I know it's getting harder and harder to find a good woman in The West), care for you,fulfill her womanly duties and most of all, willing to have your children, then be all means go for it. Try finding out her history in a non-autistic manner (make conversation about partying, drugs drinking etc) as we have suggested here, and if she passes, make sure she keeps healthy. if there are no younger girls in the horizon, go for it.
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03-03-2020 08:49 AM
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
Would caution guys with older women vis a vis having kids. If she’s early/mid 30’s without a kid I think there’s a significant risk she could change her mind about having kids despite her verbal insistence on wanting them.

It happened to me.

If you go that route, protect your finances- prenup, trust, whatever. Worst case scenario would be marrying a woman like this...finding out she really doesn’t want to have kids...and now you have to pay her to leave if you want any chance of having kids with someone else.

**EDIT- this is a much bigger risk with Western women.
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
IMO high IQ is an extremely important trait. I've qualified for mensa a have dated dumb high school dropouts who were 10s and their retardation was unbearable. Finding a mate with similar IQ levels and education is crutial. Wtf are you gonna talk about with some village girl, what will she be able to teach your children while you work?

Also IQ is passed almost exclusively through the maternal genetics. Most studies confirm this. It is imporative you breed with a smart girl. Do not compromise for under 130 IQ. Less than two percent of the world has that IQ level and it is much rarer in women than men. Your best best is boning Ashkenazi Jewish chicks, EE girls, STEM, or Asian girls (I wouldn't race mix) or join mensa and sift through the women there. Most are extremely open to dating within the club cause you already have the social proof and most men there are not remarkable specimens in the physical realm

Good luck comrade.
03-10-2020 01:43 AM
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
Well, I think I may have found my unicorn. High IQ, Under 20, N=0, etc etc etc. Thanks Roosh. The funny thing is that I could probably find more girls like this around here.
03-12-2020 12:23 AM
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
how bad to marry an older woman is kinda one-sided concern. Well,based from the 1st hand stories that i encountered, marrying an older woman is not that bad,actually it is the reverse. Most men look and chose to settle with an older woman. This is due to maturity and a more stable emotional condition.
03-13-2020 09:29 AM
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
One of my previous bosses (a white American guy) married a Japanese woman who was in her mid-30s while he was in his mid-20s. I had him as a boss when he was in his mid-50s. I saw him one time with his wife at the grocery store. My first thought when I saw them was that she was his mother-in-law, because she looked so much older than him.

When they got married, her being Asian, she probably looked like she was in her mid-20s. But, it eventually catches up with Asian women. After they hit menopause they'll rapidly age, both physically and mentally. In my boss's case, he dumped her (they didn't have any kids) and a few months later married another Japanese women in her late 30s. I think he should have looked a little harder and found one in her 20s, but maybe he didn't want kids.
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RE: How bad is is to marry an older woman?
(03-16-2020 07:58 AM)C-Note Wrote:  One of my previous bosses (a white American guy) married a Japanese woman who was in her mid-30s while he was in his mid-20s. I had him as a boss when he was in his mid-50s. I saw him one time with his wife at the grocery store. My first thought when I saw them was that she was his mother-in-law, because she looked so much older than him.

When they got married, her being Asian, she probably looked like she was in her mid-20s. But, it eventually catches up with Asian women. After they hit menopause they'll rapidly age, both physically and mentally. In my boss's case, he dumped her (they didn't have any kids) and a few months later married another Japanese women in her late 30s. I think he should have looked a little harder and found one in her 20s, but maybe he didn't want kids.

This is actually a good point. If you marry a woman who is your age or older, you have to be ok with the fact that she will age faster than you do once 40 hits.


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