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Quote: Sure, you probably won't be marrying her if she has to count to ten using her fingers and can't do twenty because her left foot is misshapen, but holding out for a university-educated woman only because she's likely to have a high IQbecause she goes to university is using the wrong metric.

Look instead for -- uni degree or not, and avoid Arts degrees like the plague -- whether she has her proverbial shit together. How does she manage money? Does she have a good relationship with a large extended family (which is predominantly of good character)? Does she run her house practically and efficiently even if she's single, or are there clothes and used sanitary devices left all over the place? Does she drink a lot or use drugs? I think what you're looking for is mostly good impulse control, because (to me) that's the sign of a brain that can, at least for a while, override the screaming, "Feels Before Reals" right side of the brain in favour of the more logical, emotionless left side of the brain. (And that side of the brain is also the one we're theoretically looking for when the phrase 'IQ' is being talked about.) I don't know what economic conditions are like in EE, but assuming it's not a university-recruiters paradise where every fool gets to have a degree after his name, there are lots of people -- male and female -- who have themselves together without having to have a university degree. Most of the signs of that will come from how you see her run her life, not from the piece of paper on her wall.

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03-23-2020 11:37 AM
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As far as your OP. Yes a woman can and will lose respect for a man if her perception of him is degraded. But way more impact-full to how she sees you than a bunch of punks yelling at you or even the loss of a job is how you see yourself.

Those other things are transitory externals. They can and will change. But your inner dialogue is at the core of who you are as a man and a woman responds to that on an instinctual level.

You need to stop being "fear" (negative) driven and focus on being a "desire" (positive) driven man.

In other words focus on what you want rather than what you dont want. This is applicable to ALL aspects of life be they, financial, spiritual, emotional, etc.

Nothing is more compelling to a woman than a man who knows what he wants and is boldly going after it. She wants a man that leads the way so she can follow

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03-28-2020 01:23 PM
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